I often get guys (especially potential Skype show customers) saying “oh, you won’t want to see my cam, I am too fat/old/ugly/whatever”. Every time I hear that it makes me sad inside, because everyone is awesome in their own way, and I wish people could be more comfortable with their badass awesome selves. I mean, I don’t look perfect and you guys love seeing me on cam, right? I love seeing the people I am playing with, regardless of what you look like!
Escort Chelsea Lane really nailed it in her blog post “Your Beauty”. Definitely worth a read if you are self-conscious about turning on your cam in a show with me.